From August, 2017

Narcissists are lazy

Narcissists do not want to change. They want to keep you scrambling for options. See they did the hard work to hook you in the first couple of weeks. Now it’s their time to sit back and drive you crazy. They are having fun when you spiral out of options. A healthy individual will strive to fix the situation by trying different communication skills, new therapy, researching because we do not like to give up on our narcissist/s. We think about what if we could just make them see how we feel. The fixer in us gets consumed with trying…

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walking on eggshells

Whenever I would try to hold on to a relationship, I would feel the tense air. This the time where it becomes full of uncertainty: the walking on egg shells period. Every offspring of a narcissist knows and feels the tension¬†escalate. We can sense it in the air getting thicker. At first, we forgive and…

Taking your happy back

Dealing with the hurt day in and day out takes its toll. As much as it’s important to workout the issues to evolve, it is important to self care. Self care is imperative to healing. – I found that taking the time to light candles for aromatherapy changes the energy in my home. -I practice…