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is it abuse?
When a whistleblower decides to confront their abusers, the people closest to them doubt them. People for the most part believe the outer mask. It is hard to think of the nice mom or dad you know to be an abusive narcissist. It can also be a fun grandmother or sweet granddad you thought you…
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cycle of abuse
First- A narcissist will use the hoovering tactic to makeup with you. Hoovering is when the narcissist tries to suck you back into their life. Narcissists have different tactics they use depending on how they can get you to react. Since the word sorry doesn’t mean much to them, they throw it in there for…
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the pack campaign
You don’t know me. You have a perception of me. The smear campaign has begun. The dragging of my reputation just because they can’t admit the abuse they have committed against me. The pack shares a brain and they can’t have individual thoughts. To hear that I have a mental illness is projection since they…
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an open letter to my family
Dear Everyone, Stop telling me that I need to speak to my momster because she is my momster. This woman only has that title but nothing else. I don’t want to speak to her because she has abused and neglected my feelings for years. I also do not want to have contact with my siblings…
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awakened
After decades of cycling through full, limited, and no contact with my family, which is full of narcissists, I suddenly had an epiphany! The odd part of an epiphany is that it comes at the most unexpected time. It came to me while I being berated on the phone by one of my siblings. She had shared some news…
Roxanna 