Tag: mental abuse

• Flying Monkeys

  

  In my experience regarding flying monkeys, they never come at an expected time. They always show up when you least expect it. Flying monkeys are people who like to create havoc in your life intentionally or unintentionally. I mentioned intentionally because some are fully aware of the abuse committed against you. Some are unaware and do…

  The Black Sheep Survives

  July 25, 2017

  Narcissism

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• triangulation

  

  Imagine having a difficult conflict with a sibling. The conflict escalates to the point where both parties insult each other and hang up. Then it’s a race to call their narcissist parent because whoever tells them the story first wins their support. Here is how this game works: Caller A retells the story to their…

  The Black Sheep Survives

  July 10, 2017

  triangulation

  Abuse, abusive, acon, adult children of narcissistic parents, conflict, control, controlling, cycle of abuse, cycleofabuse, cyclical, domestic violence, dv, emotional abuse, emotions, family, flying monkeys, forgotten child, gaslight, golden child, goldenchild, help, judging, judgment, manipulate, manipulative, mental abuse, narc, Narcissism, narcissist, narcissistic supply, narcissists, neglect, NM, NPD, parents, pawns, power, redflag, reinforcement, relationship, relationships, resentment, scapegoat, self-help, selfish, supply, support, therapy, toxic, triangulate, triangulation, violence

• is it abuse?

  

  When a whistleblower decides to confront their abusers, the people closest to them doubt them. People for the most part believe the outer mask. It is hard to think of the nice mom or dad you know to be an abusive narcissist. It can also be a fun grandmother or sweet granddad you thought you…

  The Black Sheep Survives

  June 8, 2017

  Narcissism

  Abuse, abusive, acon, adult children of narcissistic parents, control, controlling, cycle of abuse, cycleofabuse, cyclical, family, flying monkeys, manipulate, manipulative, mental abuse, narc, Narcissism, NM, NPD, parents, pawns, power, redflag, relationship, relationships, self-help, selfish, support, therapy, toxic

• cycle of abuse

  

  First- A narcissist will use the hoovering tactic to makeup with you. Hoovering is when the narcissist tries to suck you back into their life. Narcissists have different tactics they use depending on how they can get you to react. Since the word sorry doesn’t mean much to them, they throw it in there for…

  The Black Sheep Survives

  June 1, 2017

  Narcissism

  Abuse, abusive, acon, adult children of narcissistic parents, control, controlling, cycleofabuse, cyclical, family, manipulate, manipulative, mental abuse, narc, Narcissism, NM, NPD, parents, power, redflag, relationship, relationships, self-help, selfish, support, therapy, toxic