Tag: parents

• Actions Have Consequences

  

  Shahs of Sunset is definitely one of my guilty pleasures. This line was delivered smoothly that it resonated deeply. When things happen in our lives sometimes your actions have consequences. You have to really take accountability for your actions. If you don’t then your relationships will suffer. A simple apology doesn’t fix anything especially if…

  The Black Sheep Survives

  January 15, 2023

  Healing is Complex

  Abuse, abusive, acon, adult children of narcissistic parents, cycle of abuse, cycleofabuse, domestic violence, emotional abuse, family, flying monkey, gaslight, golden child, healing, narc, Narcissism, narcissistic supply, parents, relationship, relationships, Self Care, self-help, the black sheep, toxic

• Narcissists are lazy

  

  Narcissists do not want to change. They want to keep you scrambling for options. See they did the hard work to hook you in the first couple of weeks. Now it’s their time to sit back and drive you crazy. They are having fun when you spiral out of options. A healthy individual will strive…

  The Black Sheep Survives

  August 9, 2017

  Narcissism

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• Instagram giveaway

  

  I started this page a little over 2 months. I am so grateful I took the leap to start sharing. I went from being deeply ashamed of my story to completely embracing it. Thank you for helping me heal + giving me a platform to help others ✨ In honor of reaching 1K followers, I…

  The Black Sheep Survives

  August 4, 2017

  Contest

  Abuse, abusive, acon, adult children of narcissistic parents, conflict, Contest, control, controlling, cycle of abuse, cycleofabuse, cyclical, domestic violence, dv, eggshells, emotional abuse, emotions, family, flying monkey, flying monkeys, forgotten child, gaslight, giveaway, golden child, goldenchild, heal, healing, health, healthy, help, instagram, judging, judgment, life lessons, manipulate, manipulative, mental abuse, mental health, narc, Narcissism, narcissist, narcissistic supply, narcissists, neglect, NM, NPD, parents, pawns, power, redflag, reinforcement, relationship, relationships, resentment, scapegoat, Self Care, self-help, selfcare, selfish, slow, Stockholm syndrome, supply, support, tension, the black sheep, therapy, toxic, triangulate, triangulation, violence, walking on eggshells

• walking on eggshells

  

  Whenever I would try to hold on to a relationship, I would feel the tense air. This the time where it becomes full of uncertainty: the walking on egg shells period. Every offspring of a narcissist knows and feels the tension escalate. We can sense it in the air getting thicker. At first, we forgive and…

  The Black Sheep Survives

  August 3, 2017

  Narcissism

  Abuse, abusive, acon, adult children of narcissistic parents, anxiety, black sheep, conflict, control, controlling, cycle of abuse, cycleofabuse, cyclical, depression, domestic violence, dv, eggshells, emotional abuse, emotions, family, flying monkey, flying monkeys, FOG, forgotten child, gaslight, golden child, goldenchild, guilt, heal, healing, health, healthy, help, judging, judgment, life lessons, manipulate, manipulative, mental abuse, mental health, narc, Narcissism, narcissist, narcissistic supply, narcissists, neglect, NM, NPD, parents, pawns, power, redflag, reinforcement, relationship, relationships, resentment, scapegoat, Self Care, self-help, selfcare, selfish, slow, Stockholm syndrome, supply, support, tension, the black sheep, therapy, toxic, triangulate, triangulation, violence, walking on eggshells

• Guilt

  

  Last night I encountered feelings of guilt out of nowhere. Here I was getting ready for bed and a rush of guilt crossed my mind. I felt anxious and ill thinking all these thoughts. “Am I doing the right thing?” “Good people don’t act this way.” “Why am I exposing the abuse?” ‘It should be…

  The Black Sheep Survives

  July 29, 2017

  emotions

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