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Articles on generational trauma, family systems, narcissistic dynamics, boundaries, and what it looks like to actually heal.

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Family Dynamics

You Were Not Too Sensitive: Understanding the Scapegoat Role

The scapegoat doesn't cause the family's problems. They survive them — then get blamed for noticing. If you've always been the "difficult one," this is for you.

Roxanna Safdia  ·  6 min read  ·  Family Dynamics

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Accountability

Actions Have Consequences

A real apology is not just words. It is a plan of action, followed through. On accountability, forgiveness, and letting go of the illusion.

Roxanna Safdia  ·  5 min read

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Boundaries

It Is Not Disrespectful

Having your own opinions, living on your own terms, and choosing your own path are not acts of disrespect — no matter what you were taught.

Roxanna Safdia  ·  4 min read

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Healing

The Hidden Harm in Toxic Positivity

Toxic positivity isn't just unhelpful — it's a silencing tactic. Here's what it is, why it causes real harm, and how it shows up in abusive dynamics.

Roxanna Safdia  ·  January 13, 2023  ·  7 min read

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